well hello, it’s been a while.
I’ll be honest we have been super busy. What with the six weeks holiday, our month in Spain, writing a book oh, and getting married.
We are finally settling back into our routine and the swing of everything. K has just started year one, and G is in he’s second year of nursery.
Now, blog topic. This topic comes up quite a lot.
I don’t understand how people think a c-section is an easy way out, or, if they had a choice of section and natural a section would win all day long.
These people have never had sections. Now, i am eternally grateful that my two boys were bought into the world safely, and yes, by caesarean. K was an emergency after 39.5 hours of labour, G was planned as per my consultant.
These are some of the things I get told why a section is better than natural:
- your vagina stays the same
in my case, false. My vagina definitely isn’t the same. I laboured with K for hours, they tried every method to get that chunk out which also resulted in being cut and stitched down below. double whammy.
2. you don’t piss yourself while jumping on a trampoline
that is true, in my case. I may dribble sometimes when i laugh, but i don’t piss myself.
3. you can poo after c-section without any issues
nope. both times i had to take lactulose because I couldn’t poo, it’s not just vaginal births that have this.
4. at least you can rest while everyone runs around for you
Oh yea, it’s fantastic being laid up for a few days/weeks because you have had major surgery which entails them cutting through layers of skin while they try not to cut your bladder/bowl or catch your baby.
you get the jist right? yes, in someway it might seem the ‘easy way out’ but i would have loved to have had a natural birth but i didn’t, it is what it is. Just I was having a conversation on holiday about Natural VS. Section and it just angers me on people’s perspectives. I haven’t been through natural, they haven’t been through sections, we can only have our opinions.
Anyway.. I hope you are all ok.
I promise it won’t be so long next time